[New post] Showing kids how to play and parent feuds
Carries Blog Network posted: " So a while back, I think it was about two years ago my son was happily playing in the park and I was on my phone as often that it is a good time to do so. One parent who had about 5 or 6 kids, moaned that my son wouldn't get off this merry-go-round, and " The parenting adventures
So a while back, I think it was about two years ago my son was happily playing in the park and I was on my phone as often that it is a good time to do so. One parent who had about 5 or 6 kids, moaned that my son wouldn't get off this merry-go-round, and was being rude and didn't like the fact I was on my phone. All it was she wanted her child to go on there and not my son, because he had not had been on there for long, but she thought that it was well within her rights that her kids had first pickings in the park, but did she?
No, I then moaned back, I can't remember what I said but it was that, I was only on my phone for two seconds and at the time it was important things coming through because he was in the process of changing schools, but she didn't know that and just passed judgement.
Was she in her rights? No, because she obviously thinks that her kids are more important than other kids in the park and, like had a grudge of other kids being in there.
At the end of the day you will have parents who parent differently but got to allow kids to take their turns and I knew what was going, because she knew that was my son, and why should she think she is more important, and it was that my son hadn't had a long go like the other kids that had used, it.
She had this attitude, whereby she didn't think it is okay to share and why can't my son go on the climbing frame along with her kids, as long they are safe, what is the issue? Kids just want to play and that is how they form relationships. But no allowing others kids have a turn is showing that it isn't right to share.
I know it is right that we should stick up for our kids, but not when you make it unfair to other kids and there shouldn't be a divide.
I find a apologise often now when my son wants to get on a seesaw and there is a child he doesn't know on it, but they are okay with it. Its just those who feel that kids should keep a distance in that they shouldn't play along with other kids they don't know, but again that is how they form relationships.
Have you had that experience? Let me know in the comments and how did you handle it?
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