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The Kind of Person People Want Around

October 9, 2026
by Timothy Burt
 

Proverbs 22:11 NLT. “Whoever loves a pure heart and gracious speech will have the king as a friend.”

Have you ever noticed that there are certain people you simply enjoy being around? They aren’t necessarily the funniest, the smartest, or the most successful people in the room. There is just something about them that makes you feel comfortable. They’re sincere. They’re kind. They listen. They don’t constantly criticize others or turn every conversation toward themselves. When they speak, there is a graciousness about their words that makes you glad you spent time with them.

Proverbs 22:11 gives us a glimpse into why that kind of person is so attractive. It says, “Whoever loves a pure heart and gracious speech will have the king as a friend.” I love the way God connects these two qualities: a pure heart and gracious speech. One is inward, and the other is outward, but they are intimately connected. What is consistently in our heart eventually finds its way out through our mouth.

Jesus taught this very principle when He said, “For whatever is in your heart determines what you say.” Matthew 12:34 NLT. Our words are often a window into what has been going on inside us. When our heart becomes filled with irritation, jealousy, pride, bitterness, or offense, sooner or later our words reveal it. But when we continually allow God to work in our heart—helping us forgive, love, encourage, and think the best of others—our speech begins to reflect that as well.

That doesn’t mean gracious people never speak difficult truths. Jesus certainly did. Gracious speech isn’t avoiding truth; it’s learning how to speak truth with the right heart and in the right way. There is a tremendous difference between correcting someone because you want to help them and correcting someone because you want to put them in their place. The words might even sound similar, but the heart behind them can be completely different.

I’ve learned over the years that people remember how you make them feel. They remember whether you encouraged them or embarrassed them, whether you listened or dismissed them, whether your words built them up or continually tore them down. That’s why the Apostle Paul wrote, “Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.” Colossians 4:6 NIV.

Then Proverbs gives us this fascinating result: “…will have the king as a friend.” In Solomon’s world, having the king as your friend represented extraordinary favor and access. The principle is that character opens doors. People in positions of responsibility value trustworthy people. They appreciate people whose motives are clean and whose words are thoughtful. Gracious people become the kind of people others want around them.

This isn’t about manipulating people so they’ll like us. Quite the opposite. It’s about allowing God to develop something genuine within us. A pure heart isn’t a technique. Gracious speech isn’t flattery. They are qualities of character that develop as we walk closely with God.

And here’s a simple challenge worth thinking about today: What do people usually receive after spending time with me? Do they walk away encouraged? Respected? Strengthened? Loved? Or do they often hear criticism, complaining, gossip, or negativity?

David prayed, “Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a loyal spirit within me.” Psalm 51:10 NLT. That’s a wonderful prayer because it begins in the right place—the heart. When God continually works on what’s inside us, what comes out of us begins to change.

A pure heart produces gracious words. Gracious words strengthen relationships. And over a lifetime, those two qualities can open doors and build friendships that talent, position, and achievement never could.

Proverbs 16:24 NLT - “Kind words are like honey—sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.”

Prayer: Dear Lord, create in me a pure heart and help my words to always be filled with grace. Help me to speak in ways that encourage, strengthen, and bring life to others. Let my character and conversation reflect You everywhere I go. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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