Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who seemed to be demanding more than you could give? Have you felt drained emotionally when dealing with someone you love who is behaving in ways that are destructive to you? Most of us have been there in one way or another. In this book, Lysa Terkeurst takes a hard look at the need to set boundaries when this happens. This isn't always easy for Christians. We've been taught to put the needs of others first, to forgive and to pursue humility. At times others may even use these high ideals to manipulate and confuse us. A careful reading of Scripture teaches that abuse is never acceptable, forgiveness can occur without reconciliation, and it is not wrong to put limits on what we can do to save a relationship.
At the end of each chapter there are some thoughts from a trained counselor, a summary of important points to remember and a prayer. There is also a section at the end of the book which lists pertinent Bible verses, how they have sometimes been misinterpreted, what they actually mean, and how to respond if someone misuses them in order to tear down the boundaries you have established.
Ms. Terkeurst is quick to say that her book does not replace counseling, which may be needed in some cases. She also shares some resources for locating a Christian counselor.
VERDICT: 5 STARS. This is a difficult subject and the author approaches in in a completely Biblical fashion.
For more books by Lysa Terkeurst see:
Win or Lose I Love You! by Lysa Terkeurst
Forgiving What You Can't Forget by Lysa Terkeurst–Book Review
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